There are very few people who really ask for forgiveness for the mistakes they have committed. You will find that there are two ways to ask for it either you ask it just like that, I mean on the periphery level only or you really felt bad about those mistakes that you want to repent for them.
If you are in the first category type, then know that maybe that person will forgive you but within yourself, it will torture you. The mistake will go on coming and going in your thought system thus making you feel guilty. You will find yourself heavy and you will not be able to be in good relation with that person again because you have already created a barrier which is your wrong way in asking for forgiveness.
So, whenever you feel that you have done a mistake, do not wait for long to ask for forgiveness. As soon as possible, get rid of that load from you. Go and ask for it whether the other one forgives you or not but you will feel more lighter within at least. It is as if you have settled an account and you are free from a debt.
You take so many debts in life such as loan, purchases on credit, gifts and many more but you should also know that whatever you take, you will also have to give more than that. The earlier to clear your debts, the better for you otherwise they will remain in your mind and you will not be peaceful. You will sleep less. You will feel stressed and worried.
You do not have to feel inferior when you ask for forgiveness because the source of inferiority and superiority is the Ego. It is the ego which prevents you from asking for forgiveness. The more you will listen to it, the greater sufferings you will attract.
The ones who really forgive others are the ones who are strong from within. They also do not want any load within themselves. They do not want to keep any grudge against anyone. They do not even have any revenge or hate for anyone. They just live their lives in the present and forget about whatever happened in the past.
They go on forgiving everyone. This shows that they do not listen to the Ego, they are their own Masters. For them, the Ego does not exist.
But there are also many people who say that they forgive the other person but in fact, within they are still having negative thoughts and negative emotions for that person. This means they do not mean what they say. It was only an artificial forgiveness not an original one. Here, you are in fact creating a load of negativity for yourself. You are also inviting problems in your life. Your path will not be easy. Many obstacles will be there present to block you in doing what you want to do. Here also it is the ego who plays the lead role and you go on flowing with it.
As you can see, there are two types of people and the sooner you realize the truth about which one you must be, the better for you. Be strong and let the ego be weak till it is no more.
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