We all talk about mistakes but have you ever tried to know why you make mistakes?
In fact, everyone makes mistakes in life. There is not even one human being who can say that he is that perfect that he has never made any mistake in his whole life. This will be a false statement.
A mistake is a key in which you learn a lesson from it. This lesson will make you more aware. In fact, your awareness will increase a little. It is like you are walking on a slippery floor as you used to walk normally and what happens is that you fall down and hurt yourself. So, the next time you are going to walk on that slippery floor again, you will be more aware. You will walk slowly by taking all the precautions needed so that you do not fall down again. This means that you are aware of the consequences here.
Normally, you make mistakes sometimes unknowingly or whenever you are in anger or in any other negative emotions and other ways too.
When I say unknowingly, this means that at that time you do not know if you are committing a mistake. You have committed it as per your negative thoughts’ guidance and you think it is the right thing you are doing. It is later that you realize that it was a mistake.
Secondly, when you are in anger you can do anything. It is not unknowingly then, it is as if you are taking a revenge. Here, you do things as per your negative emotions.
There is another way too that you make mistakes and it is when you are not giving total concentration on the thing you are doing. Your mind becomes like the monkey which goes here and there and does not remain at one place. Whenever you are in an activity, your concentration is distributed in either thought, emotion, hearing other sounds or by seeing other things. You do not give your totality in one thing at a time. This way it is obvious that what you were doing will never be perfect.
It is human to commit mistakes but it does not mean that you should repeat it again and again and this time knowingly. If you have already learned the lesson from the first mistake, then also you go on committing the same mistake again and again, this means you want to invite problems in your life. In this case, you are solely responsible for it because you want it to be like that only.
If you have committed a mistake and you are repenting for it, then obviously you will not commit the same mistake again. You have learned your lesson now and it is time to forget about it and make sure that you will not do it again. If ever it concerns a specific person then in this case you should ask for forgiveness. If this is not possible, in case, the person is no more or you do not have any means how to contact him or her, then do not worry about it. What you have to do is to continue on with your daily activities by being more and more aware of what you are doing.
The past is gone and you are living in the present. So, concentrate totally in the present so that your future brings you good thing. If in the present you are repenting for a past mistake, then take that guilt out from yourself by working on it. Do not let it suppress you and make you feel guilty your whole life. Just be totally aware in the present moment and do not let even a single thought concerning it disturb you. The more you avoid it, then it will dissolve on its own. But make sure if you get the opportunity to ask for forgiveness, then it will be more easier for you. You will feel lighter instantly when the person forgives you otherwise you will have to continuously avoid it till it is no more. In this process, it will take some time.
There are some persons who do not feel guilty at all when they commit mistakes. They continue on with this process. These persons lack awareness. They are weak in this context. What make them weak is their thoughts. They are already a sincere slave of their own thoughts. If ever you want to tell them about their mistakes or you want to give them some advices, they will never listen to you because for them they have not made any mistake. They are filled with negative vibrations. So, it is better for you not to waste your time and energy with them. Leave them as they are. Let them do as they wish. There will be some situations in future which will be created for them in order to make them realize that they are committing mistakes one after the other. These kind of people do not need advice, they need a spontaneous hard knock in order to realize. Their whole world in which they are living will break instantly and they will be hurt so much that they will not know what to do next.
So, know that you cannot correct your past mistakes. They have already happened and it is the past. Your main aim must be in increasing your Awareness so that you do not feel any more guilt in life. You must feel strong and peaceful.
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