To understand is very important in every aspect of life. When you are not understanding a person, this can create misunderstandings, anger, stress, doubt and you will also attract many negative thoughts.
Most people go on living as they used to, not even keen to bring an inner transformation in them. They are more interested in bringing outer transformation, like aiming for more wealth, being fashionable and competing with others. By doing so, they forget about themselves. They don’t realize that their own inner transformation is more important than outer transformation. Their ego goes on increasing and they are the ones who are creating their own sufferings. Cleansing of the ego is very important and if you don’t do it, you will always feel heaviness, exhausted and attract illnesses more easily.
The Reasons Behind Not Understanding A Person
There are so many reasons why you can’t understand a person but there is one which is main which I want to explain to you. It is very important because I have seen many people reacting like that. They think that they are right but they are not aware that their own reactions can attract so many negative vibesin them.
This will, in return:
Make them tensed.
People will avoid them.
They will always misunderstand people mostly.
They will attract more negative vibes.
Illnesses will be easily attracted as they become more hyper when they talk.
This big reason behind not understanding others is not listening attentively to what others are saying. People are more prone to listening to their own thoughts only and thus, they think that others are inferior to them. They think that their thoughts are more powerful.
These people will not be interested in what the other person is saying, they are more eager to talk, talk and talk.They only want other persons to listen to them. They won’t even give the other person time to explain.
The Art Of Listening
To listen attentively means you have to forget everything else. This moment, you must focus totally only in listening and this totality itself will help you in understanding the other person. If while you are listening to the other person and at the same time you are thinking, then you won’t be able to understand what he or she was saying. This is how misunderstanding is created. The other person is saying something and you are understanding something else. Then, you become more judgmental than understanding.
You have to take the decision, either you listen with totality or you don’t listen at all.
This is because you have to give your totality in everything you do, then only you will be able to live a peaceful life.
Totality is very very important in everything you do.
Believing that your thoughts are always right is the greatest mistake you usually make. You believe that your thoughts are your best friend whereas you are not realizing that how many things you do as per your thoughts that have put you in very bad situations.
Belief is only for those who are the best friend of their own thoughts. This is why they go on blindly doing things that are against themselves and then later they have so many regrets. Thoughts are controlling them and they are letting these thoughts do as they wish. If you go on believing, then you will be the one who will miss reality.
The best thing you have to do is to leave the belief system forever and welcome your own inner experiences and realizations only.
These are the truths.
You won’t be able to know what Awareness is if you go on believing. This is because your thoughts are veiling IT. In order to experience and realize Awareness, you will have to dissolve the thought process. If you want to know more about the Thought Process, you can read it here.
For you to be aware every moment, you will have to work on your understanding level. The more you understand, the more closer you come to the Supreme Awareness State which is nothing other than your own real nature. Here, you will be able to understand other people even though they don’t understand you. It won’t matter to you if they understand you or not because your aim will be only to help them.
Understanding and Awareness
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